tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-47472311455086015092024-03-13T19:30:48.094+00:00Molly RoseMolly Rosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743859818666281421noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4747231145508601509.post-83013928620873695062014-08-05T11:43:00.000+01:002014-08-08T12:25:58.468+01:00The Body Hair Project <blockquote class="tr_bq">
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><i>At the end of last month I took part in Ailsa's project where she photographed a whole bunch of women and interviewed them on their choices surrounding the often problematic world of hair removal. It was a lovely experience and one of the first times I've openly spoke about my opinions on removing body hair. Although I was completely petrified at the time, as person with very little confidence in my appearance, after seeing the photos that were taken I felt a serge of confidence and a lot of that was based on accepting my body hair.</i></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="margin-top: 0px;"><em style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Did you ever start shaving?</em></span><br /><span style="margin-bottom: 0px;">I don’t think it’s ever really been a massive deal for me. I think I used to do it a bit on and off but then decided it just wasn’t for me. But I never really did it habitually. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><em style="margin-top: 0px;">Do you think you’re quite unusual?</em><br style="margin-bottom: 0px;" />I don’t think I do. But the reaction I get from other people: people close to me, people noticing it and commenting maybe. But I don’t feel unusual in myself because of it. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="margin-top: 0px;"><em style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;">Do you have any friends who don’t remove hair?</em></span><br /><span style="margin-bottom: 0px;">I don’t think I have one friend who doesn’t remove body hair.</span></span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I think the thing with them is that they just assume that that’s not the way that girls should be. That it’s gross. I think my least favourite thing that people say is that it’s unhygienic to have body hair because that’s a bit of a cop out almost. It’s frustrating. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I didn’t feel much pressure growing up and also I want to say that I do think it’s a bit of a ‘fuck you’ to society in some ways. I don’t want to be viewed as something I’m not. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-top: 0px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">I grew up with my nan and she doesn’t shave. I’ve lived with her for most of my teenage life. She’s completely the coolest woman in the world and she’s always been shoving feminism down my throat in a good way. So to have a really good, positive role model was really great. She was the only authority in my life- no one else was and she wasn’t telling me to do it so I never really did.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">It's always a hilarious story that on the night of John Ruskin's wedding he refused to have sex with his wife, Effie Gray, fainting after the realisation that she had pubic hair. Gray wrote in a letter to her parents that he became "</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; line-height: 18.987144470214844px;">disgusted with [her] person." However the question always arises as to whether the story is hilarious because Ruskin was so oblivious and wrong to think that an adult woman would be as smooth as a new born baby or whether it's hilarious because so many of us hold these myths about the female anatomy and he only ended up acting the way that we would. Although it is pretty questionable as to what Gray actually meant in her letter and the evaluation of these sources by historians has allowed them to believe something else, we know that the history of female bodily hair has not always been an accepting one. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="line-height: 18.987144470214844px;">For women, shaving bodily hair has been considered a societal norm for up to 100 years now and before that it was still a practice amongst certain sectors of society. One such sector was in Ancient Egypt where Egyptian prostitutes would shave their pubic hair as a sign of their profession. Despite people often arguing that shaving has huge hygienic benefits, the fact of the matter is it became popular as a result of good marketing by shaving companies who made it a fashionable thing to do in attempt to make more money out of consumers. As dresses got shorter and clothes got smaller, shaving became more important for women. To be seen with unsightly bodily hair was to be considered "objectionable". Previously, companies only benefited from the shaving market as it became a necessity for men to shave facial hair. These companies soon realised there was a huge gap in the market and began to aim for the insecurities of women. However, the pressures for men to shave are noticeably no where near as intrusive as the removal of hair became a plight for women everywhere</span></span><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="line-height: 18.987144470214844px;">. Whereas men do shave many of the same regions as women, I personally have never had so many attempts for people to make me uncomfortable with my physical appearance than I have since I stopped shaving. Even though I've had acne and have been overweight, the main thing that the intrusive comments of acquaintances are based on how manly my leg hair is or when the last time I shaved my armpits was. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">She asked me if I had any other friends who didn't shave, to which I unfortunately said no</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">, unless we mention my 68 year old feminist nan, who subtly fed me first wave feminist rhetoric for as long as I can remember. However as none of my female friends abstain from shaving, alongside the fact that many of the negative comments I receive are from friends who mean it in good jest, it made me feel a bit hopeless. The amount of times "someone forgot to shave" has resonated</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;"> in my head as I catch a glimpse</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;"> of my armpit hair sprouting out over a t-shirt and it eats away at me in my moments of weakness</span><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 19.31999969482422px;">. In those moments, it could be a lot easier to shave everything and wear my body hairless like so many others do. Personally, feeling that level of self-disgust really dispelled the myth that not shaving is easier, and that those women who don't shave are lazy. I still haven't found that unwavering self-belief it takes to downplay all the tiny comments that shatter your confidence, and most days I feel a little horrified with my body because it doesn't fit that tiny quota of what It Means To Be Beautiful.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Marvel have announced that from this October, Thor will be changing in a big way. A new Thor series is soon to be released, written by Jason Aaron (Wolverine, Ghostrider) with accompanying art from Russel Dauterman. </span><span style="font-family: inherit;">According to Marvel, Thor will be changing as a new female hero is set to take up the mighty hammer. Editor Wil Moss saw this as a continuation of Marvel's ever-growing list of superheroes as she joins the ranks of Captain Marvel, Black Widow, Storm and many other amazing female characters that Marvel have brought to life. He also explained that the new Thor is no temporary substitute; “she's now the one and only Thor, and she is worthy!” </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">October is shaping up to be a great month for female superheroes as Thor will also be accompanied by a shiny new reboot of Barbara Gordon as Batgirl from DC who released ideas as to what her new costume will look like. Illustrator, Babs Tarr and writer, Brenden Fletcher are opting for a much more modern and less stereotypically skimpy outfit, focusing primarily on practicality and utility rather than perpetuating the age-old semi-naked outfits </span>that<span style="font-family: inherit;"> so many female superheroes have adorned before. They have even clearly indicated that Barbara's costume will feature NO SPANDEX.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Despite the reaction from some Marvel fans being heavily against the company's move towards endorsing non-white/non-male super hero, Ms. Marvel, the reactions for a female Thor hasn't been all too negative. Both the industry and fans seem more than in favour to support Thor's reincarnation. Even going as far to begin deciding who would suitably play her in her hypothetical film </span>début<span style="font-family: inherit;">.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">One reason as to why this was such a great move on Marvel's part is because Thor is so stereotypically male; he is all brute force with his rippling Norse muscles and </span>humongous<span style="font-family: inherit;"> phallic hammer. He is undeniably the </span>pinnacle<span style="font-family: inherit;"> of masculinity in a traditional, stereotypical sense. It's so obvious that it's almost boring and that's pretty much always been my problem with Thor. I think he's out dated and completely one dimensional. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Despite not having much interest in previous Thor story arcs, or in his character at all, I'm completely excited by this proposal as Marvel move away from the heteronormativity that plagues all successful comic books. By screwing with the gender of this masculine archetype, it defies the rigidity of gender binaries and allows for more flexibility in what the new character can be. Of course we don't know very much on what the new Thor will be like at all, she definitely could be some scantily clad, </span>hyper-sexual<span style="font-family: inherit;"> super human contortionist (see </span><a href="http://eschergirls.tumblr.com/" style="font-family: inherit;" target="_blank">Eschergirls</a><span style="font-family: inherit;">) complete with an outfit consisting of nothing more than a thong and breast encrusted breastplate. However, by the sounds of the enthusiastic focus on how different but worthy she will be from writer Jason Aaron, I would be incredibly surprised if they then decided to follow back down the cliched tropes that so many comics use. The greatest thing about this is the new Thor will not just be another Thor Girl, as put by Writer Jason Aaron - "</span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18.987144470214844px;">This is not She-Thor. This is not Lady Thor. This is not Thorita. This is THOR. This is the THOR of the Marvel universe." She will not amount to some female hand-off of the original Thor. She will be of the same value, with the same title, because she is the same Thor. Although it's pretty terrible that it still has to be mentioned that as a female, she will still be of the same worth as the original, it's amazing to hear male writers being so vocal about their character. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">#2 in my list of awesome women in music is Lykke Li. Her debut album, <i><a href="https://play.spotify.com/album/65ain97ltDAxldCiOcBtHo" target="_blank">Youth Novels</a>, </i>is one of my all time favourite records featuring tracks such as 'Little Bit', 'Dance, Dance, Dance' which soon became one of my favourite summer renditions of any song I'd seen after she was accompanied by Bon Iver on the streets of L.A.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">After that she worked alongside Robyn, another one of my favourite Swedish popstairs, as well as a band of monochrome bohemian-looking types to record one of the most emphatic live renditions of her song 'I'm Good, I'm Gone'. Although she is able to capture herself within her music and music videos, nothing like her live videos does it with so much sincerity. She is rapturous with energy, however while always being so subdued, it allows her vocal talents to take centre stage rather than her on-stage character.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Although Lykke Li is a singer, she attempts to covert her style in every aspect of her field. Not allowing herself to be confined as her role as a singer, she spills out into film, writing, photography and art. Collaborating with the likes of Christian Haag for 'Breaking It Up' and <span style="background-color: white; line-height: 17px;">Johan Söderberg for 'Get Some', there is an indefinite aesthetic about Lykke Li. Yet she refuses to hide behind costumes or gimics, relying simply on her captivating stage presence and phenomenally unique voice.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">My argument to Ubisoft is that you have the ability to render the French Revolution with intricate beauty, yet you lack the supposed time and man power to create a playable female character. Despite director, James Therien, telling VideoGames.com that “[they] have huge teams, nine studios working on this game” and their previous creation of Aveline de Grandpre, are they still really unable to harness previously used animations? Especially after being criticised by their own previous employees they still stand by their choice not to incorporate a female avatar.</span><br />
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<span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="font-size: medium;">With more questions heading towards whether sex education should be taught at a younger age or not here in the UK, social politics, gender studies, body politics and consent, equality and an openness towards differences in race, religion and sexuality of everyone are equally important for children in high school to learn about. It must be taught before fears of social stigma and worries of becoming an outcast in the eyes of their peers begin to become the most important aspect of teenage life. Despite my generation's education being one of the most developed thus far, there is definitely so far to go. I was one of few who never taught about sex education and I never put a condom on a banana or rubber dildo. But this is definitely not the only important thing to be teaching in schools. There is a huge lack of education when it comes showing children how to grow up with openness and understanding. </span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">However, this is where I lost all hope in humanity and the poetry slamming community forever and ever. The first of two winners, who achieved the highest score of the entire night, over all, recited a poem that started with (something along the lines of) “And I know you say you <i>just </i>want a 'nice boyfriend'” and there followed three minutes of him criticising himself for his “bitch tits” and “five foot six” and how she <i>really, </i>truly, deserves a nice boyfriend, but she shouldn't say she wants <i>just </i>a nice boyfriend because she doesn't want <i>just </i>a nice boyfriend. She wants intelligence, height, humour, a good jaw and not him. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="color: black;">This </span><span style="color: black;">Nice Guy </span><span style="color: black;"><i>®</i></span><span style="color: black;"> believed that he</span><span style="color: black;"><i> is</i></span><span style="color: black;"> nice and he</span><span style="color: black;"><i> is</i></span><span style="color: black;"> everything his unfortunate beau may ever need but she doesn't reciprocate his love because </span><span style="color: black;"><i>she </i></span><span style="color: black;">is wrong. She doesn't want a nice guy, she wants an exceptional man who holds the power of He-man and Einstein combined. The <a href="http://geekfeminism.wikia.com/wiki/Nice_guy_syndrome" target="_blank">Geek Feminism Wiki</a> sums up his Nice Guy mentality completely;</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="color: black;">I don't just believe that the Nice Guy </span><span style="color: black;"><i>®</i></span><span style="color: black;"> and being male are mutually exclusive, but I don't think it doesn't stop it being completely misogynistic and harmful. Even when the Nice Guy mentality befalls a woman, she is still disenchanted by the fact that her dream guy only dates sluts and bimbos and she/he are forever trapped in the </span><span style="color: black;"><i>Friend Zone. </i>Despite being slightly shorter and smaller framed than I was (and I could definitely do more damage to him in a fight than he could ever do to me), to have a man on stage recite a poem to such grand applause and a score close to 27 across a board of four is terrifying. Is it really such a widely thought idea that The Nice Guy is entitled to everything but forever receives nothing? Do we still believe that Nice Guys Finish Last?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><span style="color: black;">Again, it is so deeply rooted to that sense of entitlement that resonates in young men. The underdog who believes that women are wrong when they openly say what they want in confidence, or confide in a friendship that means something to them. However that remains obsolete because it isn't actually what they desire. What a woman wants is wrong and the man is right. That is genuinely the archaic simplicity of the sentiment. This is distorted into the extreme perception that women seeks the "alpha male" and anything they may reject is completely subordinate. A sentiment echoed in the <a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/10853875/California-drive-by-shooting-Son-of-Hunger-Games-assistant-director-Elliot-Rodger-suspected-of-killing-six.html" target="_blank">Santa Barbara killings by Elliot Rodgers</a> himself</span><span style="color: black;">. However as worrying as it was to hear such a large and diverse group of people revel in poetry based on such primative and dumbfounding beliefs. I don't believe that Mr. Five Foot Six should even be mentioned in the same breath as Rodgers.</span><span style="color: black;"> I don't believe he really thought he was entitled to very much at all and I think that's what made it all whole lot worse for me. He held this bizarre air of disproportionate self-pity. It felt a lot like he was setting this broken bird free from her cage, allowing her to find this more-than-nice Prince Charming that she'd so long been looking for. His pseudo-romanticism combined with his arrogance portrayed her as belligerent and stupid, how could </span><span style="color: black;"><i>she </i></span><span style="color: black;">know what she is looking for her? It felt like a complete circle back to </span><span style="color: black;"><i>She should be looking for me!</i></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Of course, writing and such condensed poetry especially hyperbole and metaphor will always rage on and men will continue to romanticise The One Who Got Away as a perfect flawless work of art. But how can she be so flawless if your entire winning piece was all about how flawed she is? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">The topic of the depraved short hair woman pops up so often in the realm of internet media. Previously there was an internet feminist shit storm after the clickbait Returnofkings' website published a piece entitled “Short haired women are damaged”. More recently, one piece by some other straight, white guy with entitlement issues caught my eye. The piece which is entitled “Hey, Ladies! Short hair is rape” explains how <i>yes, you may look like a woman from the back but when I'm doing you from behind and you look like a boy, well I'm not gay so this is rape! </i>Despite being hilarious and intelligent, the author, Gavin is clearly not someone to have ever suffered from the act and long-standing emotional, mental and physical trauma that comes from enduring rape and was clearly so utterly clueless about the severity of his actions that two months later, he had to release an apology. Well no, he just defended his actions further by calling women stupid and laughing at their teeny tiny women IQs. But then again he's also the author of thought-provoking, intellectual pieces on how woman are inherently lazy and I quote “straight men are a great scapegoats because we rarely complain”. Oh and he also interviewed Terry Richardson, and decided he's a-okay guy.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Ignoring the stupidity of white men for a moment. I still do believe that the exasperation that women can feel from something so minuscule as a buzzed hair cut is horrific, archaic and really dangerous. However for many women, short hair is political and it says “fuck you” to a system which rejects them, which rejects anything that isn't femme. It's a statement towards every guy who think that they are owed their own Tresemme advert goddess complete with tousled chestnut hair. Its a statement that they do not conform to the largely perpetuated idea that beauty has only one image and can only look one way. It says “fuck you” to anyone who think that they have a say on anyone else's body. And I believe that is a righteous. I will forever support any woman's right to do what the fuck she wants with any of her hair because<i> it's her fucking hair</i>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">However maybe I'm the poster child for the crazed girl with the short hair. Maybe I'm the prime example of whatever the fuck Returnofkings is talking about when they speak of all the 'damaged' women with pixie crops they've slept with. From the age of 10, I often cut my hair off. All of it. Or as much as I could muster with a pair of blunt, craft scissors. Cutting off my hair went hand in hand with overwhelming anxiety and not knowing how to relieve myself of it and so every six months I would go from having <i>some </i>hair to another bad, choppy hair cut that then would have to be 'fixed' by a hairdresser.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">For me, it was less about having hair and cutting it off for the exhilarating purpose of reinventing myself or personally protesting against the patriarchy. When I was 10, I didn't have any idea who Germaine Greer was. For me, it was more to do with finding the little something that I had control over during a period in my life when I was very alone and depressed while dealing with an emotionally abusive relationship with my parents. I have been growing my hair out for a year now, and that’s a sign of something good – no mental break downs, no feeling like I'm losing control.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">This is why I have such an issue with men and women who believe that a woman with short hair is unattractive, mental, or even more extremely, not a woman. The idea that a woman's femininity, and apparently her sanity, is contained in her hair is one that resonates in me because of my past and one that is completely fucking ridiculous. The fact <i>you </i>think you can over-simplify or over-complicate what short hair might mean is offensive to me and to other women. There are a huge array of reasons why women do very different things with their bodies, it is not up for debate or judgement. Maybe I am a short haired women and maybe I am damaged but do not think or a moment that I do it with men on my mind. My short hair was a symbol of control when I had none and my long hair is a symbol of my freedom now I have some.</span><br />
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Molly Rosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743859818666281421noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4747231145508601509.post-86138458219502948452014-05-27T17:56:00.000+01:002014-06-10T20:54:09.293+01:00Male Entitlement is Killing Women<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwVmJqQv_ha4OjUUAbrC_f-CWjymY_HhV37fW08nCjJ3aIacQsHWV6Lx8gz7aci1Mq0Rf-1-HFEh43yIkO2ePbbSauGYsPGS7u-gxclyvEKcBZbNAw2DDggsAn_EVIC2pI7zUKhRc-TtI/s1600/tumblr_n67as6ngSa1r74d3ko1_500.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgwVmJqQv_ha4OjUUAbrC_f-CWjymY_HhV37fW08nCjJ3aIacQsHWV6Lx8gz7aci1Mq0Rf-1-HFEh43yIkO2ePbbSauGYsPGS7u-gxclyvEKcBZbNAw2DDggsAn_EVIC2pI7zUKhRc-TtI/s1600/tumblr_n67as6ngSa1r74d3ko1_500.jpg" width="550" /></a></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
</div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Stories of Elliot Rodger have erupted. The gunman killed 7 people in Santa Barbara before shooting himself, documenting his misogynistic, racist views in a manifesto, as well as a series of Youtube videos where he dictates he will “punish” the girls who aren't attracted to him, describing himself as an “alpha male” who was treated like scum while women “gave [themselves] to other men”. As well as many posts featured on men’s rights websites like PUAhate, a place for “incels” (involuntary celibates) who discuss their unpopularity with women and excoriate the opposite sex.</span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Then there’s the story of Vanden Bailey, a man from Kingston, who stabbed his wife after she refused to have sex with him. As well as the 16 year old in Connecticut, who killed a female pupil after stabbing her in the neck after she refused to go to prom with him.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">In each of these cases, which are not few are far between, we see that the deaths of these women have all been at the hands of men who feel they are entitled to something, whether that be sex, relationships, or even simply a dance at prom.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Rodger’s Youtube account contains so many comments highlighting the male belief that he owns women, that he is owed something and is entitled to them for being a man.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">To deny the entitlement and misogyny that drive these acts, dismissing these criminals as mentally ill or to pass blame onto frat-boy culture is to disregard the historical and on-going violence towards women <i style="background: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">by men</i>.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">By doing this it changes what Elliot Rodger did, making it an individual problem rather than the cultural one that is really is, making it to the acts of a mad man who didn’t get the help he needed.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">When extremists kill we blame the ideology, the religion, the culture. But when the position of man is threatened by young, white and privileged who violently attack and openly express their hatred for women and ethnic minorities, we blame everything but our society. The reason as to why acts like Rodger are happening is because of the sense of entitlement that young, white men <i style="background: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">do </i>have. Despite making massive moves forward against sexism and racism, our culture is still rife with ever-growing acts of violence towards women. We need to stop trying to deny that this was ultimately an act of misogyny and face up what we can do to prevent it rather than making excuses and allowing these types of crimes to continue.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Society harbours hatred towards women, it creates the people who act on this hatred because they are made to believe that it is justified. Society refuses to hold itself responsible for these incidents because men don’t want to see themselves in people like Rodger and when they refuse to take responsibility, they admit to their unwillingness to prevent it.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">As Margaret Atwood famously said; “Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.” Women deserve to feel safe and respected. Without the fear of death, and more so without the deaths of women being belittled to nothing more than one-off, sporadic and random events by lone-misogynists. This is not random. Elliot Rodger is not an outlier. Violence against women happens everyday and the longer we deny it the longer we allow it.</span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; color: black; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="background: transparent; border: 0px; font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><b>By Molly Rose</b></span></span></div><div style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255); border: 0px; color: #333333; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px; margin-bottom: 22px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><div style="color: black; font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><b><a href="https://twitter.com/winonarideher" target="_blank">Follow me on twitter</a></b></span></div><div style="color: black; font-size: medium; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><b><a href="http://www.bloglovin.com/mollyrose3/" target="_blank">Follow me on bloglovin</a></b></span></div></div>Molly Rosehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05743859818666281421noreply@blogger.com0